Ep 017 - The Pressure of Hitting Milestones

Hey there, it's your Host, Amanda Cahill. Today, I have an open conversation with you about the immense pressure we, as parents, feel to ensure our kids hit developmental milestones right on time. I've personally grappled with the anxiety and inadequacy that comes with these expectations, and in this episode, I lay it all out for you.

During my child's doctor check-ups, I found myself questioning the pediatrician's focus on minor motor skills, social ability, and emotional state. It got me thinking about the impact of this scrutiny not only on my child but on my own mental well-being.

Things took a turn when it was suggested that my son might have developmental delays. The aftermath of that appointment was tough—I felt guilt and self-blame, questioning every choice I'd made as a mother. It was a moment of deep reflection on what I could have done differently.

Moving beyond my personal struggles, I explore the broader topic of child development and parenting strategies. Self-care became a lifeline for me, and I can't stress enough how important it is to set realistic expectations for yourself.

Together, Let's shift the focus from rigid timelines to providing support and celebrating the small victories.

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