Ep 061 - Overcoming the Guilt of Traveling for Work

In this episode of Redefining Motherhood, I discuss the spousal guilt I've been feeling when traveling for work. As a working mom in a sales and business development role, I'm required to travel frequently which I used to enjoy before becoming a mom. Now that I have my son, I find myself feeling guilty for putting the single-parent workload on my husband while I'm away. While I don't mind leaving my son, I stress constantly about how my husband is handling everything alone.

I've tried setting a rule to only travel for 2 nights maximum but still struggle with enjoying myself on trips. After talking to my therapist, she suggested I have an open conversation with my husband about how he truly feels when I'm gone. I know communication is important, but finding the time can be challenging, especially for difficult conversations.

I want to enjoy my career while also prioritizing my family. After recording this episode, I'm motivated to talk to my husband to relieve some of the guilt I've been carrying. For any other working moms who can relate, don't be afraid to communicate with your partner or boss to find a better balance. I hope this episode helps you. Remember, together, let’s redefine what it means to be a mother.

 

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